{"id":12429,"date":"2019-02-13T00:30:13","date_gmt":"2019-02-12T22:30:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/anapantazescuana.ro\/?p=12429"},"modified":"2019-02-13T00:30:13","modified_gmt":"2019-02-12T22:30:13","slug":"de-ce-nu-o-sa-intalnesti-persoana-ideala","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/anapantazescu.ro\/index.php\/2019\/02\/13\/de-ce-nu-o-sa-intalnesti-persoana-ideala\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce nu o s\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219ti persoana ideal\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<style type=\"text\/css\"><\/style><p>George Bernard Shaw spunea c\u0103 iubirea ideal\u0103 este o activitate extrem de obositoare. \u0218i a\u0219a este. Mai ales c\u0103 aceast\u0103 form\u0103 de iubire are r\u0103d\u0103cini ad\u00e2nci \u00een romantism, iar \u00een acest caz, romantismul, contrat tuturor a\u0219tept\u0103rilor, \u00eei face iubirii o defavoare. Atunci, poate v\u0103 \u00eentreba\u021bi unde ar trebui s\u0103 aib\u0103 r\u0103d\u0103cini? Poate c\u0103 \u00een realitate.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00e2ndi\u021bi-v\u0103 \u00een primul r\u00e2nd la cum ajungem noi adul\u021bii s\u0103 ne raport\u0103m la aceast\u0103 idee. Cu to\u021bii am crescut cu basme cu Ilene Cos\u00e2nzene \u0219i Fe\u021bi Frumo\u0219i, care \u00een ciuda tuturor \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103rilor din poveste, \u0219i-au g\u0103sit drumul unul c\u0103tre altul, \u0219i au dep\u0103\u0219it obstacole \u0219i zmei, \u0219i c\u00e2te \u0219i mai c\u00e2te, asta doar pentru c\u0103 era scris ca ei s\u0103 fie \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Odat\u0103 ce am \u00eenaintat \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103, basmele s-au transformat \u00een filme romantice, reclame despre fericire, piese de teatru spectaculoase, panouri publicitare despre vie\u021bi perfecte la un clik distan\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0218i uite asta cu to\u021bii am fost virusa\u021bi de povara romantismului \u2013 acea idee c\u0103 exist\u0103 undeva \u00een lume o persoan\u0103 ideal\u0103 cu care o s\u0103 tr\u0103im iubirea ideal\u0103,<\/strong> acea persoan\u0103 care ne va fi \u00een acela\u0219i timp cel\/cea mai bun\/\u0103 prieten\/\u0103, cel\/cea mai bun\/\u0103 iubit\/\u0103, cel\/cea mai bun\/\u0103 partener\/\u0103 care poate exista pentru a-\u021bi cre\u0219te copiii, cel\/cea mai bun\/\u0103 coleg\/\u0103 de apartament cu care s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bi toate sarcinile casei, cel\/cea mai bun\/\u0103 amant\/\u0103, \u00a0\u0219i lista poate continua.<\/p>\n<p>De cele mai multe ori lista continu\u0103 \u0219i cu ni\u0219te calit\u0103\u021bi f\u0103r\u0103 de care nu ar fi \u00eentreg portretul partenerului ideal \u2013 de\u0219tept, frumos, cu sim\u021bul umorului, cizelat, etc. \u0218i-l vezi at\u00e2t de clar! Dar asta pentru c\u0103 tu l-ai inventat! Cu ajutorul basmelor, pove\u0219tilor nemuritoare \u0219i filmelor romantice.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dintr-un anume punct de vedere este chiar s\u0103n\u0103tos emo\u021bional s\u0103 \u0219tii ce cau\u021bi, ce anume te mul\u021bume\u0219te \u0219i ce nu<\/strong>, sau cu cine ai vrea s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bi mai mult dec\u00e2t timpul.\u00a0 Ce poate duce acest concept \u00eentr-o zon\u0103 nu tocmai util\u0103 pentru tine \u0219i pentru via\u021ba ta amoroas\u0103, este incapacitatea de a nu accepta c\u0103 cel\/cea de l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine nu poate s\u0103 aib\u0103 toate calit\u0103\u021bile, sau c\u0103 nu te face s\u0103 te sim\u021bi a\u0219a cum crezi c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 te sim\u021bi c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti l\u00e2ng\u0103 persoana \u201caia\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Neacceptarea vine de cele mai multe ori din speran\u021ba c\u0103 undeva, acolo, exist\u0103 persoana ideal\u0103. Oamenii de \u0219tiin\u021b\u0103 vorbesc \u00een aceast\u0103 privin\u021b\u0103 despre \u201cexpectation gap\u201d sau \u201cc\u00e2t de mare este diferen\u021ba dintre realitate \u0219i a\u0219tept\u0103ri?\u201d. Cu c\u00e2t pr\u0103pastia este mai mare, cu at\u00e2t concentrarea asupra diferen\u021belor dintre cele dou\u0103, realitate vs a\u0219tept\u0103ri, este mai mare.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vorbim despre a\u0219tept\u0103ri din mai multe puncte de vedere, cele pe care ni le imagin\u0103m, cele pe care ni le facem \u00een compara\u021bie cu via\u021ba altora, \u0219i cele pe care ni le cl\u0103dim pe baza experien\u021bei.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Niciunele nu ajut\u0103 de fapt la ancorarea \u00een realitate. Primele sunt fantezii, la care dac\u0103 apelam prea des, ajung s\u0103 ne \u00eendep\u0103rteze de la ceea ce poate avem noi nevoie cu adev\u0103rat, \u0219i neg\u0103m toate dovezile care ne sunt prezentate, doar pentru c\u0103 alergam dup\u0103 ceva ce ne-am \u00eenchipuit at\u00e2t de clar. \u00cens\u0103 mai clar ca realitatea, ce poate fi?<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 vorbim despre compararea cu vie\u021bile altora, sau mai bine zis rela\u021biile altora, cu to\u021bii cred c\u0103 avem un model de cuplu c\u0103tre care tindem, sau dac\u0103 nu, m\u0103car o poveste la care s\u0103 ne raport\u0103m \u0219i pe care dorim s\u0103 o replic\u0103m m\u0103car \u00eentr-o anumit\u0103 propor\u021bie, pentru c\u0103, de ce nu, suntem dornici de acela\u0219i romantism pe care \u00eel inspra acel cuplu.<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219tept\u0103rilie bazate pe experien\u021b\u0103, ajung a fi periculoase c\u00e2nd idolatriz\u0103m o persoan\u0103 de care ne-am desp\u0103r\u021bit, \u0219i \u00een zadar, compar\u0103m orice b\u0103rbat sau femeie pe care \u00eel\/o \u00eent\u00e2lnim cu acea persoan\u0103. Continu\u00e2nd a\u0219a, niciodat\u0103 nu te vei sim\u021bi \u00eemplinit, pentru c\u0103 a\u0219tept\u0103rile sunt at\u00e2t de mari.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ce ascunde p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 aceast\u0103 idee de iubire ideal\u0103 sau partener ideal?<\/strong> Ascunde o fric\u0103 de intimitate, pentru c\u0103 \u00een intimitate am putea deveni vulnerabili, iar a fi vulnerabil, pentru unii \u00eenseamn\u0103 \u0219i a fi automat r\u0103nit. A\u0219a \u00eenc\u00e2t este mai u\u0219or s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi cl\u0103de\u0219ti un mecanism de ap\u0103rare sub forma iubirii ideale, pentru c\u0103 \u00een felul acesta nu vei sim\u021bi durerea r\u0103nii.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ce po\u021bi face?<\/strong> F\u0103 o list\u0103 cu cu cel pu\u021bin zece calit\u0103\u021bi pe care s\u0103 le aib\u0103 persoan\u0103 de l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine, apoi \u00eencercuie\u0219te-le pe cele f\u0103r\u0103 de care nu ai putea sta \u00een rela\u021bie. Dintre cele \u00eencercuite, g\u00e2nde\u0219te-te c\u00e2te le atribui partenerului. Dac\u0103 sunt m\u0103car cinci, atunci e\u0219ti chiar norocos.<\/p>\n<p>Iar dac\u0103 e\u0219ti la primele \u00eent\u00e2lniri, \u00eentreab\u0103-te ce a\u0219tept\u0103ri \u0219i ce temeri ai \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu noua rela\u021bie, iar cu c\u00e2t num\u0103rul a\u0219tept\u0103rilor este mai apropiat de num\u0103rul temerilor, cu at\u00e2t sunt mai multe\u00a0 \u0219anse s\u0103 nu fii dezamgit, asta pentru c\u0103 e\u0219ti capabil s\u0103 vezi imaginea de ansamblu.<\/p>\n<p>Din p\u0103cate partenerul ideal nu exist\u0103, \u00eens\u0103 exist\u0103 persoane care sunt mai mult sau mai pu\u021bin potrivite pentru tine. \u0218i cel mai important, <strong>compatibilitatea nu este o precondi\u021bie a iubirii, ci rezultatul ei!<\/strong> Este o munc\u0103 continu\u0103 c\u0103tre descoperirea reciproc\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>George Bernard Shaw spunea c\u0103 iubirea ideal\u0103 este o activitate extrem de obositoare. \u0218i a\u0219a este. Mai ales c\u0103 aceast\u0103 form\u0103 de iubire are r\u0103d\u0103cini ad\u00e2nci \u00een romantism, iar \u00een acest caz, romantismul, contrat tuturor a\u0219tept\u0103rilor, \u00eei face iubirii o defavoare. Atunci, poate v\u0103 \u00eentreba\u021bi unde ar trebui s\u0103 aib\u0103 r\u0103d\u0103cini? 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